She will never have friends. She won’t fall in love. She will never be able to live on her own. She won’t go to college. She won’t get a job. She will never fit in with the others. She won’t be able to travel. She’ll never fulfill her potential. She won’t drive a car. She will never be happy. She will never be the daughter you dreamed of.
She can’t even tie her own shoes. She can’t even blow her own nose. She can’t read a map. She can’t catch a ball. She doesn’t know whom she should trust. She can't cross the street. She can’t be allowed to stay home alone.
Some of these things she does not care about. Others she might like to try. Some of them, she will have achieved soon after you swore she would not. More important, know that she hears you. She knows you never believed in her. She's sure there must be something bad about someone who couldn’t do everything on your list. She knows that you told everybody you know about what, in her understanding, you saw as her failures.
She is angry and hurt. She will try to forgive. She will try to believe in herself. She will do her best to continue growing in positive directions. She will always remember those things you have said. From this, she will never recover.